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Anonymous
My husband won full custody of my stepdaughter in 2020. It has always been a very tumultuous ordeal. My SD has always vied for the affection and approval of her mom and her dad and I have always prayed against the spirit of alienation. In 2020 is when everything changes.
I became the hated one. Not only to my SD but also to my husband and more so my SDs mom. She could never as much alienate my SD against my husband because I’ve always guarded and prayed. And because I was the one my SD kept in close regard more so than both her parents I didn’t guard my heart.
Thus I became the target and when I realized it I informed my husband but my SD convinced him that I was the reason why she no longer wanted to be with us. So custody changed and my SDs behavior towards me intensified.
I have since “cut” my affection and emotion off to a point where I support my husband with decisions he makes regarding her but I’m no longer playing an active role in my SDs life.
My husband seems oblivious to what my SD is doing and we constantly fight because he thinks I’m hateful but doesn’t like it when I don’t interact when my SD is behaving rudely or nonchalantly about matters pertaining our family.
So pray that God being peace in my household. That God opens the eyes of my husband to see that I’m self-preserving and not being hateful towards his daughter.
Pray that God speak into my SDs life and reminds her what our relationship used to be like bc when I talk with her and reminds her about things we used to do she shuts it down and says she doesn’t remember.
Pray all around for our family and also her sister bc she doesn’t know better and divulges information to my SD thinking that she’s been a good sister but the information is being used against my husband and I.
Praise be to God from whom all blessings flows.